down but I feel much they pressure us there are people who can never get a size 36 cowboy, there is something called body composition and it is not possible to change (until we can iron out the bones as I read the other day) . So what? Do we have to finish all in hospital with anorexia / bulimia for not being mannequins? And to make matters worse, the bombing by constant television (so that only I see or already have an eating disorder for some time), clothing stores with their carvings and unreal dwarves and magazines (notably cuore has got a section for "plus size" and leaves Cristina Hendricks model. Please, where did this woman is fat? has the hips and that's it, that's not being fat).
seems that if you're not pretty, you're great guy and you are also intelligent and competent are good for nothing. Why is there such a grade and above all, only for women? We are constantly subjected to more pressure that men judge us based on our appearance and not our abilities ... and after enduring all this over there who calls us "the weaker sex." A smart woman knows that he has to heed the social hierarchy and macho but unwilling, unable to avoid feeling like just a m. ..... because your body is far from the ideal of beauty today. I put my example: I am an intelligent woman, pleasant, wise, etc ... and yet I often feel that I am worth enough to the outside world for my appearance (my huge breasts, my hips), despite good grades in college and be very comfortable with my personality. I appreciate for my physical and my ability is not something that makes me feel very insecure.
as I have witnessed teachers always put top marks to the typical cute girl just for being blond or arranged to go to school but had studied much less than I-dependent feedback style "you're just a size 38?" (A couple of years spent) and the incessant comments absolutely everybody endlessly of "have very wide hips" ... What do you want me to do, throw me off the balcony because a woman with actual measurements has no right to exist? Not really. Although as I said my boyfriend a few days ago, came the moment when you come and say "oh you've spent 60 grams and now is the third time, nobody ale.
Some time ago I accepted that I never enter a size 36, my constitution is what it is. And frankly, although there were opportunities to spend realistic this size, I do not want. I and most of all, I need, I appreciate as I am on the inside not the actions of my body. "Size 36? No, thanks. The woman who spent and are comfortable with your body, it seems perfect. But you're not a size , you are a person with your strengths and weaknesses, your personality, your intelligence and especially women, with your dignity .
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